Do you know how many people have stopped following you?
I use an app to check all of my follower statistics.
It’s a little sad that I’ve realized some of the bloggers I know well and follow and comment frequently are not following me. Why? If I do have time to follow you, why don’t you do the same for me? Maybe you’re just not interested?
I understand not following back strangers, but people you talk and read their blog often…
Is it me or it’s kind of offensive?
What’s your opinion?
Thank you for reading.
xx
omg I have the exact same prob! Ppl follow and then unfollow which annoys me and i agree! Some ppl im friends on here but aren’t interested in following me on IG. Not sure why but maybe they dont like my content..def is disappointing! I also use an app which really is useful. I just unfollow ppl who unfollow me..its just ridiculous!
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Am I following you, dear?
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yes of course! You’re one of my first followers 🙂 I would never unfollow you ❤
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I’m glad I am, love. Thank you so much ❤️
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Instagram is ridiculous for this. I have no time for that B.S. lol
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Agreed. I still remember when Instagram was about showing your dinner, dog and newborn. Now there’s themes and follow groups. Just kill me already
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lol yeah! the following & un following thing is so annoying
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Don’t feel blue your putting out some of the best content, there loss if they don’t follow and miss out on all the wonderfulness you have too offer
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Thank you so much, Cory? Am I following you on social media?
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Yep thanks friend your the best
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Thank you so much! 😊
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That’s really weird. Why would they still talk to you and not follow. Doesn’t really make sense! I mean they’re obviously interested in you!
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Maybe just interested o my blog lol
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But you post cool stuff on Instagram! Like Rosa totally ignoring you!
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hahahaha that was a good one. She’s crazy
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I am a new follower of your blog. I do understand because they do the same to me mainly on Instagram.
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I hate that!! Instagram is so impossible and competitive these days! People only follow certain patterns and certain accounts. Come on.
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Yes, that’s true I thought of stopping Instagram myself for a while….:)
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You have a doggie tooo!!!
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I do!! Her name is Rosa. She’s crazy
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I have a doggie tooo. His name is Charlie hes 1 yrs old now :). I have some more recipes and of course I will share them!! My name is Sophie
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So nice to meet you, Sophie. Rosa is two. She’s beginning to behave better but she was a crazy, destructive puppy 😂 now she loves her naps
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Nice to meet you too Chelia. Charlie is still at that puppy age :). Rosa is adorable 🙂 I will post more Courgette recipes. Try this one first and see if you like it when ever you have time.
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I surely will. I’ve been looking for one but the only things I could find were purées and Thermomix recipes
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The Greek Cuisine has recipes for all sorts of vegetables. See if you like this first and if you do I will send you some…you can even fry them and eat them with a dip…or stuff them with ground beef. There are many many recipes 🙂
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I’m so happy. We’ve had plenty and huge ones this year. Most of them are almost as big as a squash.
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I read that you are from Portugal when I first started to follow you. You have absolutely wonderful recipes. I am hoping that next summer my husband and I will make it to Portugal for summer vacation 🙂 and of course that beautiful Porte wine you have 🙂
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Our food is quite good!! There are so many things you need to try. I’d be happy to email you some of my favorite, super easy recipes. Our wine in general is quite good, you should definitely go to a wine tasting when you’re here. It’s so worth it. Plus, the cheese. Oh my 🤤
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email me thats great!!! please do szogra1962@gmail.com This week I will be posting 2 recipes and then we are off for vacation back to Greece to visit family and friends…Wine tasting yummmm…I was thinking when I returned maybe start some online courses in regards to wines. Love the whole industry and the wines 🙂
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I will email you tomorrow and share some of my favorite recipes. Oh, Greece. I’ve always wanted to go. It’s very similar to Portugal, people say 🙂
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Greece, Italy, Spain, Portugal. many similarities. Great!! can’t wait. Ok gotta go its 1 am here in the Netherlands…have a lovely morning/afternoon I think your in the states. Chat again real soon. Give a big hug to Rosie from me and Charlie…
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I’m in Portugal. 11.56. Thank you so much. Have a lovely night. Same for you and Charlie. Big hugs 🙂 ❤
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Your in Portugalllll seriously hahahaha I thought you were in the states!!! your an hour behind?
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I thought except for Greece we were all on the same time zone. Greece is 1 hours ahead of the rest of europe.
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Nighty night 🙂
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I don’t get it you have lovely pictures on Instagram…:)
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Thank you so much 🙂 ❤
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Gosh, I completely agree Cheila.. I follow everyone who follow me on IG from WordPress, I like that we can support and help each other 😊 p.s – It’s easier to keep an eye on those pesky unfollowers with the apps I guess xo
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Yes, we are a community. If I follow your blog, of course I will support your Instagram.
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Absolutely, I agree completely. Just so you know we’re def following each other 😍
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That makes me happy!!! 🙂
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Am I following you on IG dear? Not sure if I am yet
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I wasn’t following you!! Just followed on both Instagram and Twitter
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I totally understand what you mean! I can get a little hurt by it now and then too so I get where you’re coming from xx
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It can be a little, hurtful. Am I following you, dear?
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We were following on Twitter but I didn’t know you had an Instagram so I popped over to follow you ❤
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That’s interesting, I’ll have to check it out!
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There’s a very nice app
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Yeah I agree. It is sad when I spend time reading someones blog only to find they have no interest in mine.
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Yes!! I do agree. Same for social media.
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absolutely!
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Do you have accounts that I can follow? 😊
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You can follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/adkinsdomain/ and Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/adkinsdomain/ 🙂
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🙂
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Oh goodness, I really think i’m this person. I so crap at keeping up with instagram and I have no idea what I’m doing on twitter its not even funny!! I barely keep up with blog posts if I’m honest!! Please don’t think its because I’m not arsed!! This month I’m focusing on my instagram account and hoping to set up a time for doing just this… hoping next month will be twitter… before long i promise to get better!! I also have a follower feed app to help me keep track of people who follow then unfollow… its called: Followers+…. xxx
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Oh dear, not at all. I know you. You’re doing very well. I’ve done an Instagram cleaning and organizing and then the same with twitter and it felt really good. I’m not sure if I’m still that organized now. Social mediaa blogging is so fast paced
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Thats so nice of you to say but still… i need to get my ass in gear and get on board!! I have that ap for instagram…. how did you clean out twitter?? So fast paced its not even funny!! xx
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there’s one for twitter too. Plus I unfollowed everything that was companies or groups and stuck to the people I either know in real life or from the blogging word. the app is TwitFollow. I got it for my iphone. There’s a general management app where you can control all or your social media, see what posts are liked more often, the ones that are not so popular, etc. But it’s paid. I’m not willing to pay for something I can check myself, by the number of likes.
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Acho que todos nos sentimos um pouquinho assim 🙂
Já agora deixo-te o meu @minnieme_blog
Beijinho
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Já segui 🙂 Beijinho ❤
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I just notice: We are not Twitter friend. XD XD I just follow your Twitter so I can stalk you publicly XD
I actually don’t follow everyone social media. I just follow few I check out post regularly and have interest in their life outside of blog. (I like Rosa. XD )
I stop following everyone back since there are too many follow-unfollow accounts comes to me these months. They also make me less likely follow people. I got an app to track my Twitter and Instagram followers too. Sometimes, I don’t even know that new unfollower ever follow me. It is how fast are these follow-unfollow people. They make me give up on the follower number now. XD I am too tired to please them. XD
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Yes this annoys me too. I used to use an app too. And then it just made me even more mad so I deleted it 😂😂
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Don’t feel sad, dear. It’s their loss. They don’t know what they’re missing out on.
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Oh yes it annoys me too…for ages my instagram would be 278 273 278 etc…its now over 300 and holding steady. If someone follows me I go and look at their account. If they have roughly the same follows as following I am happy to follow back. A lot follow then unfollow once you have followed them. I will follow him (them)…follow him (them) wherever he may be….da da da de da….its a song but thats all i can remember. …
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Yes, I agree, I love Instagram but I hate the follow/ unfollow pattern. I follow people who are friends from WP, but I don’t bother with apps as I just get upset if I see who’s unfollowed me..lol!!
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Omg I have the same exact problem!! What app do you use? Btw I follow you on here!😇
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For twitter, I use unfollowspy.. It shows you who’s following you back and who’s not. who just unfollowed and who followed. who you’re following back and who you’re not. I also use it to schedule tweets, send automatic messages to new followers and a lot more other stuff.
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Ooh cool! Thankssssss!😇
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Oh, the one I use doesn’t schedule tweets or messages to new followers. I need to get on yours.
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I dunno if there’s an app. I use a few minutes a day to go to the site and clean up my Twitter
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that’s http://unfollowspy.com for me
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Thanks!🤗
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Anytime, 😉
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💙
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I don’t think unfollowing someone is offensive.
For example, I followed someone when they were posting about pretty make up, but then started posting only about their newborn. I’m happy for their little person and it’s cute for most of the cases, but I don’t really care about babies at the moment. So I unfollowed.
What annoys me most is the people who unfollow me a moment after I unfollow them. Like some kind of revenge 😀 I mean, if you like a person’s feed, why do you need their follow back so you could enjoy it. Honestly, it doesn’t make sense to me at all…
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I understand what you mean. I think it’s offensive if you’re friends on WordPress and closer.
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Oh! I absolutely HATE Instagram! I no longer follow anyone anymore only because when I first open my account, alot of people followed me only to get a follow back then they unfollowed me. This really crushed my sole! (Sad I know) but I really think it’s fake. People portray a perfect lifestyle and it makes me feel crap haha.
I only add genuine people now. Friends, fellow bloggers. I’ve come to the point where I am too scared to follow people only to find out they’ll unfollow me in a few days!
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Have you seen that Frasier episode where he has his show reviewed from behind a two way mirror and people go crazy for it, except one guy who’s like “I just don’t like him” and Frasier stalks the guy, unintentionally breaks his hand, and lights his newspaper stand on fire? Lol, it’s a lovely cautionary tale that keeps me in check from finding BLogger657 and saying ” WHY DON’T YOU LOVE ME!” lol
https://damngirlgetyourshittogether.com/
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I am not a good follower in the sense that I click that follow button but I am good about reading everyone’s blog who follow me, and participate. I had so many times either me or wordpress(I blame wordpress) that I would follow someone, don’t see a post for days, go to their blog, to leave a “just checking on you” comment, only to see they have been posting everyday. I go to my manage and I’m not following them anymore. I didn’t do anything, how does that work? So, I realized, I needed to check all the blogs verses waiting on the reader to tell me they’ve posted something new. I don’t have twitter, and I had an instagram account for a minute. Then instagram wanted my phone number for me to continue to be able to log in. I’m not posting anything, I am just viewing, liking, and commenting. I didn’t like they wanted to force information out of me, or not let me log in. So, I don’t look at instagram anymore. I did get my feelings hurt the other day. I was looking for something and noticed that a blogger, I am close with, isn’t folllowing me. it kind of hurt my feelings but, it is what it is. I still go to their blog everyday, and participate because I like their blog.
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This whole twitter/Instagram follower thing is so frustrating to me. Between people following you just to unfollow and people that you communicate with not following you, I kind of want to give up. I’m pretty sure that I am following you, right?!? Xoxo
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I can’t say for other people, but I actually keep my Twitter/Instagram really separate from my blog. I actually unlinked my Twitter from my blog and I’ve been thinking about doing the same for my Instagram. I tend not to follow bloggers or anything and it’s nothing personal. If I’m one you’re talking about, feel free to unfollow me! I keep those social medias for my friends and family. That’s why I have a private Instagram!
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A lot of people — like myself — only set up Twitter and Instagram because that’s what everyone else does for their blogs. I’ll post my images and occasionally comment/like posts on these platforms, but I don’t truly engage on them, since I don’t have time to maintain three social media accounts plus my blog. (Plus I don’t really get Twitter and Instagram, guess I’m too old!) That would explain inactivity and maybe people not following if they’re not really using the accounts, but I don’t know why people would unfollow, that doesn’t make sense.
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I totally agree! What’s with the follow/unfollow thing? I find it so rude too! If I follow someone it’s because I want to see more of their posts but when they don’t follow back I get a little sad! I enjoy Twitter for day to day chats but I don’t actively try to grow either. X
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@Intellect13626
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Hi !! New to word press but not that much old.I know just created my IG account this is ridiculous. App is really helpful not tried but will definitely give it a try to keep an eye on those :p.Starting following you on IG. I see you of my interest.
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I noticed you had followed me and followed back 😊
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Thank you 🙂
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New mother to instagram! Please follow everyone!
simplyjessicaruth
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Hey everyone looking for new blogger / twitter friends give me a follow I follow back
https://twitter.com/PaulW1989?s=17
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