Top Ten Tuesday: Petty Reasons Why I Did Not Finish a Book

Happy Tuesday, everyone!

Today I’m linking up with That Artsy Reader Girl and telling you all the petty reasons why I DNF a book. Here’s my list:

1. Poor grammar and too many spelling mistakes.

If the book is so poorly written that I’m spending most of my time mentally proofreading it, I definitely won’t finish it.

2. It makes me angry.

Looking at you, Fifty Shades of Gray. I mean, I wasn’t expecting a literary masterpiece, I just wanted to see what all the fuss was about. If you know me, you know I don’t like being told what to do, so it probably doesn’t come as a surprise that I tossed it aside as soon as I realized Christian had a set of written rules for Anastasia. Because I clearly don’t learn from my mistakes, I still watched all four movies and hated every moment.

3. There’s a very obvious male saviour.

If you read a lot, you’re probably very familiar with the concept. Nice girl is in a bit of a pickle, meets a kind man who’s going to make everything better. He’s usually kinder than any men she’s ever met and will treat her with all the love that she’s always deserved but never got. It’s very sad that this is usually written by female authors too. I’d rather read about a strong woman who WANTS a man but DOES NOT NEED one because she’s more than capable of handling her own crap, thank you very much.

4. Too many clichés.

I mean, if it feels like I’ve read it before, it’s not for me. Even though I’m a millennial, I also get SUPER annoyed if they mention basic millennial things too much. If the characters call each other babe, speak in hashtags and drink nothing but Starbucks and watch too much Netflix, I get very mad. Am I petty or what?

5. The book is just too boring.

If the story is putting me to sleep (and I suffer from insomnia), I’m going to put me out of my misery and just find something more exciting.

6. It’s too painful for me as a mother.

Since becoming a mom, I can’t read books about kids losing their parents or vice versa, it just hits too close and I keep picturing my daughters going through the same. I made the mistake of reading The Midwife of Auschwitz (a wonderful book, btw) while pregnant and I’m still recovering from it. I guess this is not exactly petty but it’s definitely one of the main reasons I might not finish a book.

What about you? What are your main reasons for not finishing a book?

I’d love to know what books you were unable to finish and the reason for it.

See you soon.

Love,

Cheila

Top Ten Tuesday – Books I Wish I Had Read Before Watching the Movie/TV Show

Hello and welcome to Top Ten Tuesday!

Top Ten Tuesday was created by The Broke and the Bookish in June of 2010 and was moved to That Artsy Reader Girl in January of 2018. It was born of a love of lists, a love of books, and a desire to bring bookish friends together.

I’m linking up with That Artsy Reader Girl

Today I’m cheating and slightly altering the theme. We’re supposed to be talking about Movies and TV shows that would have made great books. I couldn’t really think of any so I decided to list 10 TV shows or movies that I watched before realizing they were based on a book which I would have loved to have read first.

1. The Color Purple

I watched the movie one late night while on school holidays, not knowing it was inspired by a book. I’m referring to the 1985 adaptation, as I have yet to watch the 2023 remake. I look forward to watching it.

2. Normal People

I ended up reading the book twice after watching the show (once for pleasure and once for a university class) and it has become one of my favorite books.

3. Sharp Objects

The limited series is absolutely fantastic and I wish I had read the book. I consider the ending to be one of the best plot twists ever written.

4. Anne With an E

Inspired by Anne of Green Gables. I have since read the book and loved it so much. The show is just so sweet and wholesome too.

5. Mindhunter

I’m still heartbroken this show was cancelled, it was just so good. The book is still on my TBR list, along with a few other John E. Douglas books.

6. The Haunting of Hill House

Sadly, I’ve only very recently realized this was based on a book. The show is brilliant so I’m sure I would have enjoyed the book.

7. Outlander

I have read a few of the books (not sure if up to book four or five) but I wish I had read them before watching the show.

8. Twilight

I have since read all the books (many times, actually) but would have preferred to read the first one before watching the movie, so I wouldn’t be forever stuck with Kristen Stewart and Robert Pattinson as Bella and Edward.

9. Brokeback Mountain

I honestly had no idea the movie was based on a book. Would I love the book more? I’m not sure. Jake Gyllenhaal and Heath Ledger were just so good as Jack Twist (Jack fuckin’ Twist, ha!) and Ennis Del Mar. Apparently, it’s a short novel so I might give it a go.

10. Gone Girl

If the book is half as good as the film, I’m sure I would have loved it so much. Rosamund Pike is brilliant as Amy.

What is a book you wish you had read before watching the movie or show?

Happy World Poetry Day!

Today is World Poetry Day and I thought I’d share some of my favorite poems.

Still I Rise by Maya Angelou

You may write me down in history
With your bitter, twisted lies,
You may tread me in the very dirt
But still, like dust, I’ll rise.

Does my sassiness upset you? 
Why are you beset with gloom? 
‘Cause I walk like I’ve got oil wells
Pumping in my living room.

Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
Just like hopes springing high,
Still I’ll rise.

Did you want to see me broken? 
Bowed head and lowered eyes? 
Shoulders falling down like teardrops.
Weakened by my soulful cries.

Does my haughtiness offend you? 
Don’t you take it awful hard
‘Cause I laugh like I’ve got gold mines
Diggin’ in my own back yard.

You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I’ll rise.

Does my sexiness upset you? 
Does it come as a surprise
That I dance like I’ve got diamonds
At the meeting of my thighs? 

Out of the huts of history’s shame
I rise
Up from a past that’s rooted in pain
I rise
I’m a black ocean, leaping and wide,
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.
Leaving behind nights of terror and fear
I rise
Into a daybreak that’s wondrously clear
I rise
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave.
I rise
I rise
I rise.

Fire and Ice by Robert Frost

Some say the world will end in fire,

Some say in ice.

From what I’ve tasted of desire

I hold with those who favor fire.

But if it had to perish twice,

I think I know enough of hate

To say that for destruction ice

Is also great

And would suffice.

I, Too by Langston Hughes

I, too, sing America.

I am the darker brother.

They send me to eat in the kitchen

When company comes,

But I laugh,

And eat well,

And grow strong.

Tomorrow,

I’ll be at the table

When company comes.

Nobody’ll dare

Say to me,

“Eat in the kitchen,”

Then.

Besides,

They’ll see how beautiful I am

And be ashamed—

I, too, am America.

Não Sei Quantas Almas Tenho, Fernando Pessoa

Não sei quantas almas tenho.

Cada momento mudei.

Continuamente me estranho.

Nunca me vi nem achei.

De tanto ser, só tenho alma. 

Quem tem alma não tem calma. 

Quem vê é só o que vê, 

Quem sente não é quem é,

Atento ao que sou e vejo,

Torno-me eles e não eu. 

Cada meu sonho ou desejo 

É do que nasce e não meu. 

Sou minha própria paisagem, 

Assisto à minha passagem,

Diverso, móbil e só, 

Não sei sentir-me onde estou.

Por isso, alheio, vou lendo 

Como páginas, meu ser 

O que segue não prevendo,

O que passou a esquecer.

Noto à margem do que li

O que julguei que senti.

Releio e digo: «Fui eu?»

Deus sabe, porque o escreveu.

Ausência, Nuno Júdice

Quero dizer-te uma coisa simples: a tua 
ausência dói-me. Refiro-me a essa dor que não 
magoa, que se limita à alma; mas que não deixa, 
por isso, de deixar alguns sinais – um peso 
nos olhos, no lugar da tua imagem, e 
um vazio nas mãos, como se as tuas mãos lhes 
tivessem roubado o tacto. São estas as formas 
do amor, podia dizer-te; e acrescentar que 
as coisas simples também podem ser complicadas, 
quando nos damos conta da diferença entre o sonho e a realidade. 
Porém, é o sonho que me traz a tua memória; e a 
realidade aproxima-me de ti, agora que 
os dias correm mais depressa, e as palavras 
ficam presas numa refração de instantes, 
quando a tua voz me chama de dentro de 
mim – e me faz responder-te uma coisa simples, 
como dizer que a tua ausência me dói.

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Top Ten Tuesday: Books on my Spring TBR List

Welcome to another Top Ten Tuesday.

Top Ten Tuesday was created by The Broke and the Bookish in June of 2010 and was moved to That Artsy Reader Girl in January of 2018. It was born of a love of lists, a love of books, and a desire to bring bookish friends together.

Linking up with That Artsy Reader Girl

Today, I’m supposed to be showing you what’s on my Spring TBR list. I wish I was that organized as a reader and that I had an actual TBR organized by season but all I have is a general TBR list where many books go to die. I’ll be sharing some of the books on my general TBR.

1. The Book Woman’s Daughter by Kim Michele Richardson

I really enjoyed The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek and I’m looking forward to reading this sequel.

2. Scarlet Carnation by Laila Ibrahim

Again, a sequel. This is book in the Freedman/Johnson series. The previous 3 books have all been 5-star reads for me so I’m excited to read this one.

3. Outlive: The Science & Art of Longevity by Peter Attia, MD

Everyone and their mother seems to be reading this book and I’m curious.

4. Gory Details: Adventures from the Dark Side of Science by Erika Engelhaupt

This one sounds right up my alley.

5. Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind by Yuval Noah Harari

I’ve been meaning to read this for years.

6. Book Lovers by Emily Henry

I’m a book lover so it’s only fitting I want to read a book about book lovers.

7. Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers by Mary Roach

I’m very interested in science and medicine, especially pathology and autopsies, so this looks like something I will enjoy.

8. The Women by Kristin Hannah

I haven’t read a book by this author that I haven’t loved so I really want to read her new book.

9. Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb

Another book I’ve been meaning to read for years. I go to therapy and I’ve been very invested in it so this is something that could probably teach me something.

10. Escape Into Cottagecore: Embrace Cozy Countryside Comfort in your Everyday by Ramona Jones

I’ve been trying to live a simpler and more meaningful life so this fits into the plan.

As you can see, I read pretty much anything.

Have you read any of these books? What’s on your Spring TBR list?

Love,

Cheila

February Books + March TBR List

In February, I read 7 books.

1 novel

1 compilation of 15 short stories

5 novellas

1 DNF (Did not finish)

It was an atypical reading month, given that I mostly read full length novels. I feel like I’ve been reading less and writing more, too. Blogging every day and following all my favorite blogs takes time away from reading, but it’s something I really enjoy so it’s okay.

So, what did I actually read?

1. The Thirteenth Husband by Greer Macallister

Number of Pages: 336

Genre: Fiction; Historical Fiction;

Book Summary: (NetGalley)

Based on a real woman from history, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo meets The Haunting of Hill House in this fictional tell-all narrated by the glamorous Aimee Crocker, revealing everything from her mischievous days in German finishing school to dinners with Hawaiian royalty to lavish Astor parties in Manhattan. But behind Aimee’s public notoriety, there’s private pain.

When Aimee is ten years old, as the night dips into the witching hour, the Woman in White appears to her. Minutes later, Aimee’s father is dead—and Aimee inherits a fortune. But the Woman in White never really leaves Aimee, appearing as a sinister specter before every tragedy in her life. Despite Aimee’s wealth, her cross-continental travels, and her increasingly shocking progression through husbands, Aimee is haunted by the unidentifiable Woman’s mysterious motivations.  

Tearing through millions of dollars, four continents, and a hearty collection of husbands, real-life heiress Aimee Crocker blazed an unbelievable trail of public scandal, private tragedy, and the kind of strong independent woman the 1880s had never seen. Her life was stranger than fiction and brighter than the stars, and she whirled through her days as if she was being chased by something larger than herself. Greer Macallister brilliantly takes us into her world and spins a tale that you won’t soon forget.

My Review: This book is not being published until August, so I won’t be giving a review until then. I’ll come back and post a full review on the publishing date.

2. The Book of Witty Women by Helen Lederer, Kathy Lette, Sadia Azmat, Josie Long, Lucy Vine and more

Number of Pages: 352

Genre: Humor and Satire; Novellas and Short Stories; Women’s Fiction;

Book Summary: (NetGalley)

The Book of Witty Women showcases the very best in humorous short story writing, by outstanding contemporary women writers, including Kathy Lette, Sadia Azmat, Lucy Vine, Josie Long, Paula Lennon, and many more.

It includes the winning and shortlisted stories from the Comedy Women in Print Short Story Prize.

From tales of a narcoleptic biscuit lover, con artists with a twist, and the accidental death of a hamster; to consequences of accidental gluing, the imagined world of extreme shopping, and the delightfully surreal world of canine dating, these 15 boldly imaginative stories range across a multitude of genres and themes.

Each proves the power of the short story to disarm, tickle or simply entertain.

My Review: Not giving a review yet as the book isn’t being published until April.

3. The Magician by Rebecca Serle

Number of Pages: 25

Genre: Fiction; Short Stories; Contemporary;

Book Summary: (Goodreads)

A mother-to-be is awed by her own mother’s chaotic and unknowable approach to life and its natural mysteries in a smart, witty, and whimsical story by the New York Times bestselling author of One Italian Summer.

Growing up with an eccentric but loving mother who levitates for a living, Charlie always wondered, How does she do it? Defying gravity is no easy trick. Neither is motherhood. Now that her mother is leaving New York for bigger skies in New Mexico, it’s a new stage in life for both of them in an ever-evolving relationship that reveals the true magic of being a mother.

Rebecca Serle’s The Magician is part of Good Intentions, a riveting collection of stories about the instincts, fears, and fierce love inherent in motherhood from award-winning, bestselling authors. Read or listen to each in a single sitting.

My Rating: 4 Stars

My Review: It was a quick, enjoyable read. I confess I had to read it twice because I wasn’t exactly sure I was grasping its full meaning.

4. Poppy’s Story by Kristina McMorris

Number of Pages: 44

Genre: Fiction; Short Stories; Historical Fiction;

Book Summary: (Goodreads)

In 1962 Virginia, with the world teetering on the brink, a schoolteacher searches for strength and hope in this moving tale by the New York Times bestselling author of Sold on a Monday.

Poppy Turner has spent more than a decade teaching children grammar and arithmetic. Suddenly her days are steeped in fears that reach well beyond a classroom filled with air-raid drills and anxious young faces. As a mother-to-be, she worries about bringing a child into a time of such turmoil. To find stability, she will have to decide if she’s willing to look more closely at her own past.

Kristina McMorris’s Poppy’s Story is part of Good Intentions, a riveting collection of stories about the instincts, fears, and fierce love inherent in motherhood from award-winning, bestselling authors. Read or listen to each in a single sitting.

My Rating: 4 Stars

My Review: It’s a cute story. I can definitely relate to the fear that comes with finding out you’re pregnant and wondering if you’re going to be able to be a good mother and bring a child into this crazy world. I like how relatable it felt.

5. The Exception to the Rule by Christina Lauren

Number of Pages: 101

Genre: Romance; Novella; Contemporary;

Book Summary: (Goodreads)

On February 14, an accidental email to a stranger opens the door to an unexpected relationship in a captivating short story by the New York Times bestselling authors of The Unhoneymooners.

One typo, and a boy and girl connect by chance. Wishing each other a happy Valentine’s Day isn’t the end. In fact, it becomes a friendly annual tradition—with rules: no pics, no real names, nothing too personal. As years pass, the rules for their email “dates” are breaking, and they’re sharing more than they imagined—including the urge to ask…what if we actually met?

Christina Lauren’s The Exception to the Rule is part of The Improbable Meet-Cute, irresistibly romantic stories about finding love when and where you least expect it. They can be read or listened to in one sitting.

My Rating: 3 Stars

My Review: Even though it didn’t actually blow my mind, it was still a pretty enjoyable read. I found it a bit predictable. It was pretty clear from the beginning that Terra and Callum were going to run into each other somewhere or end up in the same college or job. I also felt it was a bit too good to be true. What are the chances of someone meeting their soulmate via email and them turning out to be the hottest, hunkiest guy at school/work? And that both people are very physically attracted to each other immediately? Regardless, it was a cute story and a quick read. I will definitely continue reading the series.

6. Worst Wingman Ever by Abby Jimenez

Number of Pages: 61

Genre: Romance; Novella; Contemporary;

Book Summary: (Goodreads)

They’re falling in love, yet they’ve never met. Maybe fate can intervene in a heartwarming “what-if” short story about new beginnings by the New York Times bestselling author of Yours Truly.

Holly is dealing with the impending death of her grandmother and still reeling from a bad breakup. One bright spot: a Valentine’s Day card on Holly’s windshield—even if it wasn’t meant for her. An amusing mistake soon turns into a lovely exchange of anonymous notes, little acts of kindness, and a growing affection between two strangers. What happens when one of them has to say goodbye?

My Rating: 4 Stars

My Review: I quite liked this one. The dying grandmother hit me right in the feelings and I loved her story but I have a bone to pick with this book. There’s a moment when Holly’s grandmother gives a big speech about life and I have to say that the language she uses makes absolutely no sense. Check this out:

“the whole point in me telling you this story is to remind you that we need to manifest our own destiny. I never accepted less than what I deserved ever again. Never ignored a red flag or excused bad behavior.”

Listen, my grandmothers are both dead so I’m by no means an expert, but I’m pretty sure no grandmother says things like “manifest your own destiny” or “red flag”. Unless her grandmother is a 29 year old Instagram influencer and somehow I missed it?

7. Rosie and the Dreamboat by Sally Thorne

Number of pages: 44

Genre: Romance; Novella; Contemporary;

Book Summary: (Goodreads)

Rosie Whittaker and her sister are up for some Galentine’s pampering at a day spa. Getting locked inside a flotation tank is so Rosie. Enter a firefighter hero determined to pry this luckless pearl out of her high-tech shell. All Rosie has to go on is a dreamy voice and a flirty sense of humor. Remain calm, Rosie. This could be what you’ve been waiting for. Is this the man she’s waited for her whole life?

Sally Thorne’s Rosie and the Dreamboat is part of The Improbable Meet-Cute, irresistibly romantic stories about finding love when and where you least expect it. They can be read or listened to in one sitting. Let’s make a date of it.

My Rating: 4 Stars

My Review: I thought it was a pretty cute story but, apparently, everyone hated it? I mean, I don’t think the author is getting a Nobel prize anytime soon but I didn’t think it was that bad. I loved the sisters and Rosie’s personality. It’s a little too good to be true that the fireman that comes to rescue her looks like he came out of that Australian fireman catalog (you know the one I’m talking about, hunky fireman holding cute animals), though. I’ve had to call the fire department once or twice and the fireman never looked like that, unfortunately.

Did Not Finish: When the Waters Came by Candice Sue Patterson

I received an early digital copy of this book via NetGalley and it is not yet published so I won’t be telling you why I didn’t finish it. If I said why, I’d be giving a review and the publisher has asked that we don’t write review until closer to the publication date.

My March TBR List

This month, I’m focusing mostly on books I’ve received from NetGalley. On my TBR List you can find:

The Worst Woman in London by Julia Bennet

The Flower Sisters by Michelle Collins Anderson

The Forgotten Names by Mario Escobar

After the Rain by Laila Ibrahim (especially looking forward to reading this one)

The Summer of Yes by Courtney Walsh

Did you read any good books in February?

Love,

Cheila