About the weekend + the shitty week + heartbreak

Hey guys,

Happy Tuesday. Better than Monday right? Well, not for me. I’m having the shittiest week and yes, I know the whole week will be shitty and it’s only Tuesday.

I had THE WORST day yesterday. I can’t really get into details for privacy reasons (not mine, I’m not exactly a private person). Family issues just suck in general but even more so when someone you’re close to and someone you’ve known for your whole life and done EVERYTHING for, turns out to be very different than the person you thought you knew. Man, it hurts all over. I’ve cried my eyes out, missed work and am pretty sure I’m going to have a relapse. I thought I already knew all kinds of suffering and pain but, it turns out, there’s always a bigger, deeper one. Shit, how can I describe how much it hurts? I’m sure you all love someone with every fiber of your being. You know the feeling, right? Imagine you suddenly having reasons to doubt they love you as unconditionally as you love them. It’s life changing. It’s physically painful. They say you can’t break a broken heart but, trust me, you can. Over and over. I’m sorry I’m being so secretive, I know it’s annoying but I need to vent.

You know what’s funny? Even thought they have hurt you so deeply, you still feel bad for every little bit you might have hurt them. This person I’m talking about, I slapped them yesterday. Twice. Yes, me. I can be a bitch. They’ve hurt me so bad and I feel like the devil for those two slaps. I feel like I’ve slapped my soul. That’s how much I love them. Damn, I can’t seem to catch a fucking break.

Anyway, life goes on, I guess. I’m off to work now, there’s laundry to be done. I eat, shower, just like every day. It just hurts to work, eat and shower.


Let’s just get over the depressing and try to talk about normal stuff for a while, shall we? I’ll do a weekend to-do list update. Don’t expect much, we were pretty lazy.

1 PLANS FOR THE WEEKEND:

Things I must not forget:

• To drink my 1.5 to 2 l of water;

Yes.

• To eat my fruits and veggies;

Yes.

• To take my pills on time;

Yes.

• To make sure I take at least 10.000 steps. (I only aim for 5.000 on the days when I work out)

No.

• Remember to insert all of this information in my health app (including meals), which is the best thing I’ve been using ever. Lifesum

Yes.

• Go and get my eyebrows done (for crying out loud)

No.

• Cut my hair, my ends are very dry and thin.

No.

• Shaving. I’m in a public pool several times a week, they don’t need to endure hairy legs, armpits and lady bits. (I rhymed)

No.

Self-care things I would like to do:

• A green clay mask, as I haven’t done one in God knows how long.

No.

• Take 2 big nature walks with the mister and the little four-legged lady. (Probably not gonna happen, being honest here)

No.

• Do my favorite yoga routine before bed, I’ve been waking up about 3 times each night.

No.

• Do some kind of foot scrub.

No.

• Apply some clear nail polish on my nails so I won’t bite them.

No.

Things we actually need to do:

• Finish tidying up the house. We have moved the furniture we intended to, which means Rui’s desk is in the living room and I have an office space in our bedroom. Our former office is now a “closet” (Our wardrobe, shoes, bags, coats are in there) and a guest bedroom. When you make such drastic changes, objects need to be moved as well, so there are lots of clothes and random objects that need to be put away.

Kind of.

• Laundry. Besides our regular laundry, we have a few blankets, pillows and clothes for my pregnant friend that need to be washed, as well as a few sheets. We also have a ton to put away.

Yes.

• Clean the kitchen.

Kind of.

• Do some general cleaning around the house. (I’ll tell you what we got done when I do my update on Sunday)

Kind of.

• I need to move some of my plants inside because they don’t seem to like the cold and rain.

Yes.

• Rosa NEEDS to go to the vet.

No.

• We need to cook and prep for the week ahead.

Yes.

• I want to read some blogs.

Yes.

• I want to get my planner ready for the week (would you like to take a peek at my planner?)

No.

How was your weekend, people?

Hugs.

Chey.

23 thoughts on “About the weekend + the shitty week + heartbreak

    • We have to be, don’t we? I’ve been through so much. I’ve learn not to feel sorry for myself. I mean, I still do, but I’m now able to see the other side and I know there’s always something good happening, every single day. Even just waking up or having a good cup of coffee or reading a funny joke. Life is painful but not 100% dark. 😊❤️

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  1. Hey 🙂 Imagining about Monday spoils whole day. Yea its a kinda thing to hate. Anyways it passed away and here i am reading your wonderful blog most and trying to juice up all the nectar of positivism in your post. It kinda gives some boost to face Monday 😉

    Your Admirer,
    Ali

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  2. well, my friend, sorry your week has started off painful. Betrayal of someone you have invested you love in, is the worst kind of pain. The stories I could tell you but who wants to wake those sleeping dogs, I’ll let them lay right where they are. I pray you will find peace soon, from this hurt. I was lazy this weekend, as I tend to be every weekend. I try to get all my stuff done during the week, even if I have to stay up late, so I can be lazy on the weekend :):)

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    • Hey dear, thank you for your kind words. You always seem to have some for me. Thankfully, it is solved now and the person has apologized and has had a change of heart. I cried so much and my nerves were on edge for so many days that I can tell you I’m absolutely beat by Wednesday. Thank God I have a psychiatrist’s appointment tomorrow which I had forgotten about, God knows I need it. In the end it was actually Rui who solved the situation. That man has a heart of gold but he could have avoided both world wars lol he’s like family diplomat. He does everything in his power to make me happy and I had never seen him so angry as he was with this person, in the 5 years we’ve been together. I was even a bit scared lol but they heard him and admitted he was absolutely right. No wonder my mom loves him like a child and trusts him like a best friend. He’s a good one, God was good to me. He always is, in the end. I’m just impatient. Thank you for being there for me. Hugs. ❤️

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