Guest Post Sunday: The 5 Ways To Happiness by Maggie (Dreaming Of Guatemala)

Dear readers,

This Sunday I bring you a post by one of my favorite bloggers and a dear blogger friend, Maggie, who blogs over at Dreaming of Guatemala.

If you don’t already know her, take this chance to stop by her wonderful blog. She writes about her faith, her family (she’s a proud big sister of 3), her Spanish studies (she’s learning on her own!) and her daily accomplishments, among a few other subjects. I’m so happy that she has agreed to guest post for me and she has come up with such an amazing and helpful post about positivity, something we all need to focus on.

The 5 Ways to Happiness 

Hi everyone! I’d like to start by saying thank you to Cheila for this awesome opportunity to guest post on her blog! It was so kind of her to think of me, and I’m really excited to get into this. ❤

Alright, so today, I’m going to be talking about positivity! Sometimes, it’s so hard to stay happy and positive, no matter what’s going on in life. Whether everything’s fine, or we’re having a tough time dealing with everything that comes our way, there are times when we need an extra positivity boost. I’ll have days where it simply takes an inspirational post or quote to get me back on track! That’s why I’d like to share my happiness tips with all of you. I have compiled together things that I recommend to you when you’re feeling down and need some encouragement, as well as things I do myself when I need more happiness in my own life. Feel free to sit back and enjoy!

  1. Figure out what is causing you to feel down. If you can do something about it, then by all means, do your best to change it! Sometimes, we don’t even realize what we’re doing to ourselves. For example, I’ll end up feeling awful on occasion simply because I’m dehydrated. By just drinking water, I’m instantly feeling better.
  2. Take some time for yourself, or seek out others. Depending on what is affecting you in your life at this moment, I know that one of those choices will help you; the other one will make it worse. When I’m feeling overwhelmed, or worn out from a long day, I enjoy relaxing in my room. This usually consists of watching YouTube, working on a blog post, catching up on blogs, and maybe read a book, too. Being around others, while enjoyable to me, isn’t what fixes my tiredness or weariness. Now, on the other hand, if I’m upset about something, I much prefer spending time with my family, because even if they don’t understand what I’m going through, it’s definitely a nice distraction. I also enjoy talking to the awesome bloggers I know, as that always helps get my mind off of what’s upsetting me.
  3. Reach out to others. Sometimes, telling my loved ones what’s bothering me is the last thing I want to do, but it is the most therapeutic thing of all. Do you know why that is? Because they will either comfort you as best they can, or completely surprise you by saying they’ve been through something similar! It is so comforting to know that you’re not alone in feeling a certain way. We tend to feel like we’re alone in our struggles, which doesn’t turn out to be the case at all! Share how you’re feeling with your family, or write a post about it on your blog. Someone will eventually be able to relate with you and comfort you.
  4. Focus on the good. I’ve found that, no matter how bad it gets, there is always something to be thankful for. Counting your blessings really does something for your heart. Being able to step back and see that there is still so much beauty in your life is a huge encouragement – at least to me!
  5. Be happy with yourself. This one may sound strange, but it’s true. If you aren’t accepting and taking care of yourself the way you are, imperfections and all, it’s hard to be joyful. I’ve had days where the moment I let go of the insecurity I feel about different things about me, I’m quickly able to find the ability to be happy again.

Happiness isn’t an outside force, or something that can be caught and bottled up – it starts right inside of you. Once you can accept yourself, as well as the ones you love, and learn to be okay with anything life throws your way, you will find beauty everywhere you look.

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27 thoughts on “Guest Post Sunday: The 5 Ways To Happiness by Maggie (Dreaming Of Guatemala)

  1. Cherylene says:

    Lovely post Maggie. True happiness lies within us. Although external influences can add to our happiness ultimately it is a choice that we make to enjoy the moment and create a few along the way. Thanks for sharing. 🙂

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  2. Margaret from soulfood101blog says:

    Maggie you never cease to amaze me, and today is no different. These are all such great ways that we can keep ourselves happy. And it’s important that we rely on ourselves, and God for this. Everything else is not responsible for our happiness or sadness or we will certainly be sad and let down more than not lol. The physical is true, I was dehydrated the other day and felt bad, so that one is certainly true about the physical 🙂 Thank you for the great advice and thanks to Cheila for the guest post. Both of you are just out of this world sweet! :):)

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  3. iwannabealady says:

    These are excellent tips. I love the way that you focused on what’s happening internally and our ability to do something about it. It’s always been difficult for me to open up to people about feelings of unhappiness, but recently I’ve started seeing the truth in what you say: opening up can really help us to feel connected and sometimes just release negative energy. I think saying things out loud makes it not so big or overwhelming, maybe. Thanks for the boost of positivity! We can all use it.

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  4. lifeofangela says:

    This is a beautiful well written post Maggie! Those tips are great ways to reevaluate your situation and try to focus on the good, to help reevaluate your head and think of the positive. Happiness does come from within 🙂

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  5. mikarose says:

    Hi!! Be sure to check out my blog page. It would mean so much to me & this journey of my life has been smooth sailing. The opportunity to be introduced too new bloggers is great🌱🌱

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  6. Jainey says:

    Beautifully written post, Maggie. I couldn’t agree more with your points. All so very accurate. True happiness starts from within. Once you make a conscious choice to be happy, you’ll set out doing things that make you happy.

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